Chinese Valentine's Day

The 7th day of the 7th month of lunar calendar......

The pair of you have been ridiculously unhappy for years. You and him are completely incompatible. Can you see how different you both are and how unhappy you've both become?

A three-years temporary phase? It hasn't been that long, has it?

You were always the life and soul of party, always happy, always smiling, but since you've been living with him, you've been so unhappy.

I don't think he is a bad person. Really I don't. But rattle around in the ridiculous family of his, and I know you're not at home there, and you don't seem to have anything in common.

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The ideal life should be like this. I'm out every night. I have my own apartment, great friends, a string of men to call on should I feel in the mood for sex. I'm thirty-two years old and I still party with the best of them, and I love my life.

Once upon a time I would have said the thought of spending the rest of my life on my own was terrifying, but now I'm not so sure. I don't have to compromise for anyone. I don't have to stop doing what I want to do because my partner doesn't feel like it. And I know I've been accused of being selfish, but so what? I'll be absolutely happy with my life exactly as it will be.